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The second safe and clean sexual activity (after masturbation) is oral sex or fellatio in academic language. Moreover, oral sex is possible almost anywhere. This is why it’s widely practiced by gay males.

Fellatio is an ancient way to have sex. Its origin is hidden at the dawn of Stone Age. There are various petroglyphs depicting some forms of oral sex. One of the most famous petroglyphs depicted a bear licking an ejaculating penis. Pay the attention: our far ancestors have depicted exactly an ejaculating penis. They meant that any fellatio should end in ejaculation. Well, shoot your small nice spermatozoa!

The Foreplay

Is a foreplay important for oral sex? May a couple easily skip it? Well, a foreplay is very important! There are several reasons not to skip it.

First of all, a full-fledged fellatio requires normally erect dick, no flaccid or semi-erect one. Otherwise the fellatio may be delayed for a pair of hours, nobody needs it, you see. Secondly, male genitalia “construction” requires not only mere frictions for both orgasm and ejaculation. The signal should be sent by the brain; it means that all erogenous zones (or, at least, the majority of them) should be stimulated. These zones may be located in different parts of a man’s body, but all of them require equal attention.

Well, a journey of a thousand li starts with a single step… If you do not know enough the body of your beloved one, you may ask him directly, where these erogenous zones of his are located. But remember that it may be not enough just to touch them according the scheme given. That is why I do offer you to use a quite different method. Here it is:

Try move your hand over his head, touch his hair with your fingertips; move slowly downward along the neck; don’t forget his ears and the areas behind the ears. Use the other hand simultaneously: touch his back and buttocks; return slowly to the chest as if you were exploring a totally new area; move slowly to his abdomen. Try to spread your fingers a bit and bend them a bit too. When you has finished with his strong abdomen, pass by his dick – you have plenty of time, don’t you? You’ll touch this desired organ later… Well, this erogenous zone needn’t to be explored! Go on to the inner sides of his sweet hips. Well, you may continue the exploration of your “America”, but the exploration described is usually enough. It’s very simple to locate the erogenous zones needed: when you are touching there, your beloved one reacts: he may shudder, fade, moan quietly, embrace you tightly or do something even more socking great.

Well, when the most erogenous zones have been found by you, repeat the exploration. But now try to use your lips and tongue. It’s also useful to kiss the zones found, if you use kissing in your sex practices. The main idea of such foreplay is to reach the maximum erection of your beloved’s dick; don’t worry about your own dick – it should erect with no effort. The more pleasure you give to your lover, the more erect is your own penis. Well, the erogenous zones are found, his dick is as upright as a bamboo stem is, and the corpus cavernosus is full of blood just covered with the skin… The foreplay is finished, but the show must go on!

The First Part Of Going On

Lick your lips slowly but with plenty of saliva to ensure the best sliding along the desired shaft. Start with tea-bagging, then kiss and massage the dick’s root with your lips; touch the root with the tip of your tongue, as if you were trying to tickle the shaft. The contact should be slight for the initial time: don’t press and don’t suck too strong. But you are moving upward, the lips pressure is slowly increasing, the tongue should perform a kind of full-fledged massage.

Well, you are near the top, where both lovers should get the maximum pleasure. The top is the glans. Now it resembles an mouth-watering mushroom, covered with thin skin. But in fact it resembles a volcano, and it is ready to erupt. Don’t hurry to put this mushroom into your mouth: don’t hurry to eat it… Use your tongue to touch the point just under the glans; then move upward along the slot on the glans’ downside to reach the glans’ top; and don’t forget to tickle the dick with your tongue. Well, your lover is under your control. He will not try to escape – it’s rather difficult to refuse to orgasm if the orgasm is within reach. Now feel free to do what you want: you may make a tight ring of your lips around the dick, or squeeze the dick with the inner sides of your cheeks, or turn your tongue into something snake-like; you may swallow the dick fully or partially; you may even rest the dick against your tonsils if it doesn’t caused any spasm of your throat. Feel free to do anything, but try to be as tender and gentle as possible. A dick is the organ for the maximum endearment, you see…

The Interlude

Meanwhile… Your hands are now free – all erogenous zones have been already found, the lover’s prostate is ready to move earth and heaven, his testes are ready to shoot from the scrotum. It’s time to stimulate all these organs additionally. Your gentle fingers are running over all these erogenous zones (you needn’t to stroke them for a long time). Catch hold of the scrotum with both your palms, play with it, sway the testes, finger the hairs on the scrotum (if they have not been shaved off by your forward-looking lover). Massage his anus too, but don’t insert deeply through the sphincter. Don’t forget the part of perineum containing both the inner part of penis and the prostate. Stroke the outer sides of his sweet hips, don’t forget to find your hands between them. Do it to make your sex full of pleasure.

The Second Part

Your lover is ready to erupt, this is the matter of several seconds. He is moaning, shuddering, his breath is hurried, just a moment – and then he shoots. It’s time for a tactical move. Stop for a moment, with his nephrite stem in your mouth, but just for a moment. Then caress his dick with doubled force. Use the whole mouth to haft it on the dick, suck the dick with doubled force. Imagine as if you were in the very heart of a desert, you are dying of thirst, and – there is a small berry here with a drop of sweet juice in it. You are trying to suck this juice… Well, you have understood me… Your gentle fingers shouldn’t stop, continue stoke him simultaneously. Then stop… and attack again. Repeat this until he ejaculates. Well, your lover shuddered sharply, he caught your hair or your neck, he is clasping your head to himself, he tries insert into your mouth deeper (control him if you don’t want to choke)… He cries, he wheezes… The thing in your mouth began pulse and… The end.

He has shot, that’s all! What are you going to do with his cum – it all depends on your taste and your safety measures. Some people say that HIV can not be transmitted via oral sex if there is no open wound in the mouth, but other people say the opposite. I don’t know who is right – it’s up to you to decide, you see. People say also that one can ensure his safety with a condom. I don’t know… A blowjob with a condom?.. Well, maybe… But if you trust your lover absolutely, his semen is not the worst thing in the world…

The Conclusion

Well, this is a set of some general ideas to help you to get the pleasure of blowjob.

1. When you are performing any blowjob, don’t accumulate your saliva in your mouth: otherwise the dick will become wet and will not be able to remain erect.

2. If you see that the process tends to be too long – take a pause: no one needs a 3-hours long blowjob, move on to other sex practices.

3. Don’t use your teeth for giving blowjob: if you bite your lover, any sex will become the last thing in the world for both of you.

4. Don’t try to swallow both penis and scrotum: it can take any positive effect very rarely and then only if the prostate is tightly clasped.

5. Don’t try to force things, speed the process up or slow it down. The main thing in a blowjob is general sexual arousal and long full erection with the blood in the corpus cavernosum, but not mechanic effort.

6. If you are not going to swallow the semen, but it is to become your “pearl necklace” – don’t hurry to wash it off in a shower (the semen will simply curdle), but rub it on your skin, let it soak into your skin. You’ll massage your body during the rubbing, and semen itself is excellent cosmetic. You’d better have shower after the end of your sex games.

Good luck! I would be glad if you can find something useful in fellatio. But if you use your wild imagination – then both success and pleasure are guaranteed. When one is playing the flute – both lovers can enjoy the music simultaneously or by turn.


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