rules of dating: Canines And Dating Along with Bumble – VITA Day-to-day
I would not start with such a defined painting, I would keep a rough drawing (the one I want for myself) and I would add the details from time to time. Sometimes a person who we believe does not correspond to our ideal, then maybe she turns out to be the most suitable one. But if I am stuck in an ideal and what others will think and how I should behave or not, I will never have a chance to really know someone.
It is not a question of being right or not, love is simple, it works or it doesn’t work. I like a person, I am interested, I decide to get to know him without making big flights, without canceling my life and without anxieties and prejudices. In this case he was not interested in having a ‘non-superficial’ relationship, while Antonella did, and slipped away. Maybe he was rude, cowardly, clumsy, idiot, etc. , however, both were traveling on two different tracks. Maybe at the beginning he will also have toyed with the idea of knowing her then a little for her reasons, a little because maybe she has unconsciously transmitted to him some needs that he could not or did not want to satisfy, he slipped away. It also happens with older men, let alone a 29-year-old. I would not fixate on what he said, most of the time the average man is average, maybe he thought he was paying who knows what compliment or maybe manipulating to get to his goal, we will never know and it doesn’t seem so important to me. It is an unhappy phrase like so many others that feel not only in love. What matters are actions, actions give us the value of a person more than words. In this case, actions and words were perfectly aligned.
Dear Blue, thank you for taking the time to try to make me understand your point of view which, through beautiful metaphors, such as that of surfing or painting, came to me as a suggestion to approach life in general in a different way. Enjoy the beautiful things that life offers us day by day, without asking too many questions and expectations that alas I always do, without crazy races but small steps, without too many dots on the i’s. Fortunately or unlucky, it had never happened to me to push anyone away (indeed) and yet it is always me, the Antonella of all time. The point is precisely this: what if you risk not being yourself trying to behave like this after these situations? maybe it’s good, maybe not.