4 Big Problems Fellas Help to make around His or her dating profiles for men
Once upon a time it was essential for women to be able to marry, have children and be the “queen of the house”. It was the culture that dictated the rules. The woman who did not marry was destined to become a “spinster”, or was it because so many men. Even those who had absolutely no vocation in their hearts were raised in an environment that showed them as their only chance, the way of marriage, and convinced them of how important it was to achieve this goal, even before personal ones.
The search for a husband was natural for many, and could take place at home, through organized meetings or within the circle of friends. For those less charming, occasions were less frequent, or require longer times, but in essence there was a husband, even ugly and clumsy, for everyone. In fact, for the man, accustomed to his mother’s care, it was not difficult to get carried away by the desire for a family, even if the material responsibilities would have fallen dead weight on his shoulders. Times were different, it was not the Italy of today, there was work and salaries were proportionate to needs. A shred of a project could be done!
Then there were also those who fell madly in love and, opposed by their family, had to jump through hoops to fulfill their dream. This situation was perhaps the most romantic of all, as it still is today. A suffered love seems to be more interesting than those where everything goes smoothly.
Today women have changed and men have changed as well. The way of getting to know each other has also changed, no longer conventional, no longer at parties or at the supermarket, at home or in the office (where you are now a lover …), but online. The virtual dimension has taken hold, replacing the more ordinary ones, greatly expanding the opportunities to meet people (or identities) and to establish more or less serious relationships.
Let’s face it: online chats, social networks, dating sites have created different opportunities, but they have also cleared up some false myths that the woman was still chaste and pure, immune to temptations and instincts par excellence attributed to the stronger sex.
With the advent of technology and with the virtual identity that helps the most fearful and stimulates action, the female soul seems much more uninhibited and persuaded. You no longer play coy, but take what you like. And a very interesting indicator seems to come from the virtual world, where in chats and dating sites the profiles of women looking for relationships with men are depopulated.
The question that arises spontaneously concerns the intentions of the fair sex. What are Italian women looking for on online dating sites? Definitely not friendship. From statistics and sector studies it emerges that they too, like the male “playmates”, say they are open to meetings, but with the right to disappear if this does not work out. There is no doubt that the woman is more bold and assertive today, but the chat element allows her to get closer without compromising her feminine elegance, which typically must welcome courtship and the suitor, but not anticipate it.
On the net, however, “netiquette” has changed the rules of the game and no matter who the man or the woman is, the game of identities narrated by digital words takes over and creates worlds in which everything is possible, where it does not exist. shyness nor any gender code (understood as sexual gender). We come forward with an email or a chat, we wait for the other to reply and correspond. If you like each other, you continue until you meet, otherwise the time for a chat (which is not denied to anyone) and away … you turn your profile.
Those who go online to find love will never admit to looking for it right there, perhaps they will not say they have a profile except to their best friend, to whom they could simply admit that they want to expand the possibilities of making new meetings. There is time for love and perhaps it still inhibits the idea of looking online among many photos of strangers.
Of course, then, for those who are single, the opportunities that are created online are undoubtedly greater than those that happen in real life, where a man may not feel confident enough to approach a woman. The woman knows this. And he also knows that any search can start as a game, but end up giving an emotion or a true love. In her heart the woman, although modern, is always a woman …